SWALI:
Je inakubalika kumuoa Mkiristo atakaesilimu siku ya ndoa?
JIBU:
Sifa
zote njema anastahiki Allah Aliyetukuka Mola Mlezi wa walimwengu wote,
Swalah na salamu zimshukie kipenzi chetu Mtume Muhammad (Swalla Allahu
'alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam) na Swahaba zake (Radhiya Allaahu 'anhum) na
watangu wema mpaka Siku ya Mwisho.
Hakuna
tatizo lolote endapo atasilimu kidhati, Imepokewa kutoka kwa Anas
amesema: Abu Twalha alipomuoa Ummu Sulaym, mahari yao ilikuwa ni
kusilimu, Ummu Sulaym alisilimu mwanzo kabla ya Abu Twalha,
alipomchumbia, akasema kwa hakika mimi nimeshasilimu, ikiwa utasilimu
utanioa, akasilimu na ikawa kusilimu ndiyo mahari yao" (An-Nasaaiy
6/114).
Lakini
Muislamu mwanamume awe makini na mwanamke mwenye kutaka kusilimu siku
ya ndoa, isijekuwa ni mwenye kumdanganya akawa anasubiri siku hiyo
wakati ameshatayrisha mambo ya harusi kisha amgeukie. Ikiwa hili ndilo
sharti aliloliweka huyo mwanamke basi nasiha yetu ni kuwa uwe makini na
ujaribu kuchunguza kwanza dhamira yake.
Na Allah Anajua zaidi
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10 Ways of Protection from Shaytan:
Imam Ibn ul Qayyim
Seeking refuge with Allah from Shaytan. Allah the Most High said, “And if there comes to you from Satan an evil suggestion, then seek refuge in Allah. Indeed, He is the Hearing, the Knowing.” [41:36]
Recitation of the two soorahs al-Falaq and an-Nas, as they have wondrous effect in seeking refuge with Allah from evil, weakening Shaytan and protection from him. This is why the Messenger, sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: “No person seeks refuge with anything like the Mu`awwidhatayn (soorahs al-Falaq and an-Nas)”. [an-Nasaa’i, 5337]
Recitation of Ayat al-Kursi (2:255).
Recitation of soorah al-Baqarah. The Messenger, sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam, said, “The house in which al-Baqarah is recited is not approached by Shaytan.” [Muslim]
The final part of al-Baqarah. The Messenger, sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam, said, “Whoever recites the two last verses of al-Baqarah at night they will suffice him.” [Muslim]
Recitation of the beginning of soorah Mu’min (Ghafir), until His saying, “wa ilayhi-l-maseer” (to Him is the destination). (i.e. “Ha. Meem. The revelation of the Book is from Allah, the Exalted in Might, the Knowing, the forgiver of sin, acceptor of repentance, severe in punishment, owner of abundance. There is no deity except Him; to Him is the destination.” [40:1-2])
Saying “la ilaha ill Allah wahdahu la sharika lah, lahul mulku wa lahul hamdu wa huwa `ala kulli shay’in qadir” (there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah, He has no partner, His is the Dominion and Praise, and He is able to do all things) a hundred times.
The most beneficial form of protection from Shaytan: abundance of remembrance of Allah, the Exalted.